The more you push, the stronger she has to be to hold the line with you. I think they are being ridiculous but each of us had different experiences with her and even though none were horrible we each had a different view of her and handled it in our own ways. Your Moon parent is the one who taught you about consistency, and about the benefits of harmonious relationships. Rubeena, that is so lovely and heartwarming to hear. It can also represent the relationship we have with our mother and "the maternal." . Your need for her motherly nurturing gives you a deep emotional connection with her. Libra Moon Sign Meaning, Element, Quality, and Ruler. You sometimes feel that this parent was predictable to the point of being dull. For Harry and Emily, "there are some interesting lunar influences at play," says Lang. So she thinks in her own mind that we are the perfect family. There was nothing positive about it. There have been dramatic highs, matched by equally dramatic low points. The Moon in Libra is considered peregrine in astrology, and hence, the merger of the Moon-Venus . She is only 6 months old and I love her so much its scary. It was crazy listening to all of it while we were young. My sun is conjunct my Saturn. Your up-front approach in dealing with. In your youth, she is the center of your world and because your focus is centered on her, your critical nature can't help but analyze her every action. The Aries Moon parent allows you to express your individuality, as long as you dont harm yourself in the process. The house doesnt have to have a consistent look from one room to the next. You ARE wanted. To many, this sounds fatalistic. Did their roles change during your childhood and young adult years? So, it's difficult for her to measure up to your expectations and it often seem she isn't meeting your needs. I have natal Moon opposite Uranus. I'm a sag moon and I did indeed have a very difficult relationship with my mother, I feel like most of it is true if you had parents that weren't willing to give you freedom (mine), I guess if they just let the child have their freedom it might have been easier for them but other than that it's very accurate, we are a lot to handle for parents because we hate being controlled and not having space to breathe but at the same time we do want nurturing and love and for them to be there for us (like any child though) and we tend to be very mature even at a very young age, at least I always felt like an equal to my mother rather than someone who I owed respect to, she made a lot of mistakes but wanted me to be perfect and never make one, she was very manipulative and abusive with words and actions, she exposed me to the entire family and her friends when we had a fight or I had a problem to play the victim even though I was in a very bad mental state at the time, she said horrible things throughout the years, she once told me to kill myself properly if I was gonna try do it again, she sometimes hit me (which was very traumatic since i'm not at all a physically violent person), she always suffocated me but was never there when I really needed, she made me feel guilty for everything that went wrong in life, even if it wasn't my fault and made me feel bad about myself my whole life, she denied everything when it came to her taking faults, I had to take charge of her emotional baggage countless times and she still managed to make me feel like the bad guy (my mother has an Aquarius moon, and she had a very difficult relationship with her mother too so I understand where all of this comes from but it didn't make it any easier on me tho) a very toxic mother for me, but in despite of everything I don't hate her, she has her own baggage and it's heavy as well so there's no use on crying over spilled milk at this point, it's better to heal and let go. Deep down I tried to forgive her actions but I cant help but feel resentment towards her which I should go to therapy for. You see your mother as someone who goes through a lot of emotionally exhausting times in her life. You may want to jump in, metaphorically speaking, whereas your parent explores the depth and temperature of the water first. especially moon in pisces comes off very negative, My husband and I both have moon in Cancer (mine is 4 degrees and his is 12 degrees). She is strong, emotionally clear and direct. So when i saw him argue with my mom, it just looked as if she had too much on her plate. Your Pisces Moon parent is reserved and rather quiet. In one argument, he actually told her he's not going to allow her to see his son, and doesn't want his son raised by her. And Secretly gifts her thousands of dollar for her birthday . My 'mother' was emotionally and psychologically evil towards me, and would still be if I hadn't gone no contact. Because your astrological moon represents your internal, self-nurturing, self-support system that is first experienced through your relationship with your mother, your moon actually describes your mother." "Reactions toward your mother's behaviors are largely determined by your moon sign. Lying to the courts when I was little and fabricating a story that my father molested me so she could get custody and more money was the one burned in my mind the most, and well she lost that battle. This is due to your constant need to push your own agenda forward, which naturally meets resistance from your mother who doesn't always agree with your plans. These qualities in a parent come across as quick to anger and quick to forgive. Somehow even as a young child you are acutely aware of the give and take dynamic in relationships. Pisces sun, Cancer moon here. I have had to be the bigger person in all these situations and indirectly take responsibility for all our conflicts. Just when you feel sorriest for yourself, there will be a surprise that shows exactly how much this parent really cares for you. As adults, they have intense and spontaneous emotions. Sadness will sometimes be apparent, yet he or she carries through to take care of business is spite of difficult emotions. This means that it feels almost at home in Taurus, but it can become overly confident and a bit detached from reality. Develop a close relationship and you get to share in that depth of mind. She didn't know what respecting someones privacy was furthermore the lying kinda closed the deal on that for me. Hello, I know youll likely never see this but my 8 month old son has a Scorpio moon and seeing stuff like this worries me for him and our relationship. Emotionally I can see why she is an Aquarius moon compared to how I was as a child. My mother rejected me Both fearless and tenacious, this parent may have clawed his or her way to success, dragging you along for the ride. You know when you have done something you shouldn't have, and her attempts to guide you are nice, but not really helpful. You were not encouraged to wear frills, and probably everything tended to coordinate, except for dress up attire, which may have been distinguished. Rather, you simply don't burden her with your problems. As a moon in Taurus person, you have high expectations of your mother's ability to provide for your practical, every-day needs. When I had my first heart break,,she advised me not to give my feeling and get attached to guys until I find out if they were the right one for me. Watching my mother being physically abused by my dad, and working 2 jobs, it always seemed as if I was a burden to her. I have a horrible relationship with my mother. My mother was verbally abusive to me. :) Did your Mom happen to have a water moon or sun also? If she fights you on this, your quick mind will likely find plenty of sharp and unfortunately often painfully precise verbal rebuttals. Clothing and decorating trends, dance fads, the condition of the stock market or the weather-anything that has a rhythmic pattern of behavior fits within this parents perspective. You are difficult to contain and control, so your mother may have a difficult task at hand in raising you. I was reading an article about your moon sign reflects your relationship with your mother and I find this so interesting. Personally, I rejected my Leo moms attempts to baby me. My mother is a Sagittarius Sun with the Moon in Cancer and Virgo Rising; Mercury in Capricorn and Mars in Scorpio, Venus in Aquarius (like me). My daughter is 1 years old and she is also an Aquarius moon like me but her Moon isnt negatively aspected at all. You felt like her caretaker in certain ways. So, if your mother allows you space, you see it as a bit flighty or disconnected at times. The Moon in Scorpio falls hard and deep very fast. I, Your Moon Sign & Your Relationship With Your Mother. Eventually you seek independence, and the Leo Moon parent may try to hold on a bit longer than you want. The Leo Moon parent can tech you a lot about leadership style. I have a moon in capricorn and this is really good.. . It may seem there is little time for you in this personal process because career interests are so important to him or her, this parent is likely to push you to achieve as much as you can, and to pursue a career that holds the promise of financial ad social success. May 2014 When I had my son I realized she was a horrible morher. Or there could be aggressive outburst that may have been frightening to you as a child. This means that clothing had to be durable first, then attractive. Your relationship with her is not what you want it to be and you feel like it probably never will be. My mom was a wonderful role model to me. Court battles were another one of her power games she enjoyed. I get along better with Fire and Air sign people more than Water or Earth sign people. Although you need her close for emotional reassurance and support, you also have a tremendous need for emotional privacy. "My mother loved children. Your Virgo Moon parent is mentally thorough and methodical. It's strange that my mom is controlling in different ways too. Once she wasnt a single mother anymore (when I turned 8) she picked up a very bad drug habit. She might have been dominant, short-tempered, and impulsive. Your light, detached, active and agile Gemini moon always keeps your mother on her feet. Your Taurus Moon parent appreciates value. Your mother has standards for your relationship that are clearly defined and understood. But I know that I must create a life around her & not with her They are emotionally immature and manipulative. The only way it may get better is if we both learn to communicate better and if she stops being controlling over me. September 2014 I dont know my mothers story or what cause her to be the way she is. I cannot wait to be the best mother I can possibly be to my baby daughter. I value my freedom a lot and when he(aries sun, virgo moon, cancer asc. Copyright 2013-2023 southfloridaastrologer.com, How the Zodiac Signs Ruin their Relationships. However, you also learn the value of quality from this parent. FYI, the Moon is an important indicator of compatibility as it represents your emotional needs. Libra is a Cardinal sign and hence, the most expressive sign among the air triplicity. I have natal Moon semi square Lilith. For me, I analyze my emotions and later and life I learned to cry when I feel like crying, and not to hold back what I feel. I love how you explain the native's perspective of the mother is merely her responding to the native's emotional nature. If that is not your strong suit, you can at least learn how to think about the future as part of your planning process. The younger ones don't talk to her now and she has a hard time with that. If your moon is in Pisces, you share an extremely intuitive bond with your mother. I can see aspects of controlling in my nature. NATAL MOON IN LEO: THE REGAL MOTHER. Some way or another, your mother always leaves you feeling vaguely guilty. She says she doesnt remember anything when I talked to her about how abusive she was until I left the house (and still is to my younger sister). Once you enter adulthood, your parent may become more of a friend or mentor, or even your personal cheerleader. He knows she's always going to protect him, but at times he feels she's manipulating him. While this attitude can feel harsh at times, you develop a sense of trust in the security of knowing that there is a plan for each day. It will tell you a great deal about your instinctual nature, but will also give you valuable information about your mother and how you related to her. Their life karma asks them to grow up fast to become emotionally independent. She manipulated not just me, but others around her. I'm a very unconventional mother which he might appreciate once he's in his teens. Your moon sign is one of the most important pieces of your astrological chart Where the moon was in your chart when you were born shapes your emotions and your soul. My brother would argue all of the time with my mother. Growing up with her was to ignore my own feelings and make sure she was taken care of first. My brother never found it and committed suicide. I guess its difficult to generalize a moon placement when there are so many other details that tie into how its experienced but my mother simply did not let me be myself. My sister has a Leo moon- completly different first born treatment. Do sag moons like their mom at all? Despite your acute sense of her shortcomings, you accept them as being part of a her. A big presence, whether for the better or worse, describes your mother. Family matters assume a larger share of the attention, and he or she becomes more patient, especially with grand children and other young people. What's more, her inability to see this makes her seem naive to you and makes you feel even more like you should be in charge of your life. He was emotional at the time he said it, and my mother took it to her heart. My relationship with my mother has ALWAYS been turbulent. You are like a feather dancing in the wind and she can never quite catch you. He or she can demonstrate great patience in working through most difficulties. So I do like things how I like them and am very protective of my Was she good at creating a supportive environment, or (for her own reasons) unable to express love and nurture? So, you generally see her as kind. Once you got past the initial reaction, hot as it might have been, you knew this parent would not only keep your secret, but would also do everything possible to help you solve the problem. How do we respond to feelings? There is a tangled web of emotion that develops between a mother and child throughout their lives. Yu get the sense that he or she has given substantial thought to any project before ever making the first move. There's a deep love and attunement between us which I have never felt with anyone else to such degree. You often took on her burdens and emotions as your own. On some level, youalways feel like she could just make some changes in her life to make things easier for herself but it never happens. There was always a sense of wanting to look the very best, perhaps just a step above the income available. My moon is in square to majority of my planets. He or she understands individuality and is able to furnish your room or buy clothes that suit you well. Life has not been easy for this parent. Family relations are like investments of emotional bonding and mutual coordination, understanding and having respect for each other's individuality. We both had substance abuse problems and I had bulimia too. My Mother is an extremely emotional narcissistic parent, and always has been. I have a scorpio moon and my younger siblings have a capricorn and aquarius moon. Her Aquarius moon is Trine Venus and Conjunct Mars. Also, nothing surprises me anymore.lol. This happens because career issues are no longer the main concern. It also squares Saturn in the 4th house. So that alway puzzled me. I feel like the entire natal chart in Aspect to the moon gives more clarity but it also lets you understand what your Destiny is. He or she appreciates the unusual and the new, and is willing to study a new subject or undertake the development of new skills. On the contrary, I've read some Scorpio moons love their Moms and are close with them so like I said I guess it just depends on other details in the chart. You also learn how to make and keep friends. It's opposite my Saturn and sextile my pluto. For background Ive always been a straight AB student and hated feeling like a burden to my mother therefore always did everything she told me naturally. From being overly concerned with things that you want to disregard, to becoming enmeshed in your life when you need emotional privacy, it often seems that she is out of tune with your emotional rhythm. But when its my birthday , not even a card or a happy birthday . An emotional strength that isn't always obvious pulls her through her life. But yes on what above article stated: all 3 were handfuls to raise. I always felt some sort of way when it came to my mom. But if you don't, take it to heart and KNOW it as truth. Because your moon represents your security needs, which are quite powerful especially in the formative childhood years, your moon colors your attitude toward your primary and immediate security provider, usually your mother. I also have Gemini moon in 11th house (very difficult relationship with my mother and it squares Venus which is the ruler of my 10th and 3rd, she is always comparing me to herself and my brother. Love . She belittled me. I tried to cling to the illusion of a family my whole life and endured a life time of covert abuse. Even in my 30's now, she is still this way, but now it's starting to shift in a direction that I am fighting to lay down my own rules, and she doesn't offer me a lot of respect when it comes to me making my own decisions. I miss her.when I was naughty she use to say,you'll see when am dead.i had no idea what she was talking about. Your relationship with your mother is never boring. You're not always sure she realizes this and so at times it feels like you are bit lost. Your emotional maturity and strength is fully developed from such a young age that your mother's ability to help you grow and support you is almost unnecessary, making your relationship with her a bit distant and detached. Moon signs (plus their all important aspects) are often a huge clue. You know your mother always has a serious core to her regardless of her outer attitude. In these years of early childhood, your behavior is largely unconscious and controlled by your moon. You sometimes feel that this parent is super critical of your behavior. Since he was older, she had many expectations from him, and this drove him off of the wall. The air sign mom is the wind beneath your wings, always bringing fresh ideas, adventure, and out-of-the-box inspiration to share. My mother has Capricorn moon and had a hard time with being a mother because she never wanted to even be female (Pluto in the 10th house). It can seem like a certain need for freedom seems to lead her away from you, and you often feel like you are more of adult than her. Very true. The disciplinary role can no longer be delegated to one parent either. Your Virgo moon is critical by nature, so it's nearly impossible for anyone to measure to your standards especially someone as important as your mother. Which was basically telling me.. i had to keep her from crying, and not the other way around. In the film, family man Dan Gallagher has a whirlwind affair with Alex which takes a terrifying turn when she begins to stalk Dan and his family. Gemini The rhythms of daily life tend to flow according to the Moon parents tempo. September 2013 Pandit Vishnu is Best Astrologer in Ontario. Like I dont need it now - its weird . This placement can be described as calm and centered. One big reason is the number of single parent homes. That meant that astrologers could look to the Moon in your chart to interpret your relationship to your Mom, and Saturn to interpret life with Dad. For those looking to send their mother on a long-awaited vacation, a good set of translation earbuds are worth their weight in gold. You just don't seem to need the coddling that many other people enjoy as children. Years later, you parent may continue to come up with adaptations or considerations relating to the subject. I am on my path of healing and moving on and forgiving but I always have to cringe a little when she still doesnt get how she destroyed us and asks innocently stuff like so are you flying home for the Holidays? - No madam, I am not. I dont dwell in my emotions, they come and got like to flow of water, in motion. She quickly realizes it is useless to try and gives you the freedom you always assume is normal in life. But it also made me realize where I truly do lack an emotional attachment to many things in life, which comes as a positive for me. A new eight episode series of the same name, set . I feel as though if it wasnt for my Aquarius moon, I would have given up LONG ago and I would feel so bad for myself always looking for somebody to lean on emotionally. This balance is not consistent. I have a Scorpio Moon. Blaming, shaming and guilt were the underlying messages I received. Your Moon Sign & Your Relationship With Your Mother One hundred years ago, it was pretty much a given that your mother was your nurturing parent, while your father was the breadwinner and the more authoritarian parent. This parent could hide in a corner, waiting to see what might happen. In contrast, the Moon parent takes on most of the responsibility in matters that relate solely to home and family. She is strong, emotionally clear and direct. The Leo Moon parent desires comfortable, even luxurious surroundings. However, when you aren't willing to open up and trust her, you see her as manipulative and controlling. Capricorn May 2015 Do you have summary about the father and its respective planet as well? Sometimes it seems like this parent misses good opportunities by holding back a bit too long. You both deserve to enjoy it, not just her. Provide information that you think is necessary to making good decisions, and relieve this parent of duties little by little as aging demands. Mutable Signs She literally tortured us and with my Saturn in Aquarius in 8th house my father was so distant, disconnected and aloof so we had no one to save us apart from neighbours occasionally intervening after hearing our screams. 12th House You give her space to live her life and time to deal with her issues. This parent can create an entire dcor around one or two heirlooms. So yeah, this is my Capricorn moon placement. My moon is in Libra, which sounds so innocuous. This Mars-ruled Moon sign needs a lot of action, excitement, and a physical outlet for their emotions. In many ways, she feels younger than you. As a child, my mother was extremely attentive to me and highly protective and influential, she didn't let me out of sight when around strangers and always oversaw my development with an eagle's eyes.